“Why do we always think that the love in the book is vigorous, but the reality is insipid?”
“Most of the reason is that we can easily see the inner waves of the people in the book, but can’t realize that the people around us stop talking.”
Couples who have just been together are sweet but shy, eager to know more about each other with unfamiliar knowledge
They are afraid that they will be hurt in the process of love, and they are also afraid that they will not show enough love for each other and be suspected.
What is lacking at this time is a sense of security, so bold exploration of the other half can not only make the other party feel your love warmly, but also reassure themselves through the other party’s response
Couples or couples who have been together for a long time gradually return to calm and fall in love but also seem to have lost their passion
What is love? It is the meeting, acquaintance, love and combination of two people who had nothing to do with each other before.
Love can never be a kinship. Love is the initial power to create romance, the courage to stay together for a lifetime, and the capital to stay together for a lifetime
Many people said that love finally turned into kinship, like holding the right hand with the left hand.
Shi Tiesheng said: “Love is not a noun, but a verb. It is a verb forever. It moves endlessly.”
Therefore, love is always there, whether it is a couple who just got together, or a couple who have lived a long time. For love, we need to move!
Here are seven things you must do together to feel your love and keep your passion:
- Read together
Reading is a very romantic way to understand each other’s things, to understand each other’s mood, to actively express their views with each other, and to resonate with each other. - Travel together
During the journey, you can best match the feelings of two people, such as whether the division of labor is clear:
First of all, in a new city, two people are familiar with each other. Strangeness to the new city will certainly lead to many unexpected situations. Facing the unknown, can the two people face it together.
Secondly, it is also important to care about each other’s feelings. How can two people resolve differences when they do the same thing together? Both men and women should care about each other’s feelings for a long time.
Finally, the concept of money or lifestyle. Look at what the other party mainly uses their money for, and eat? Live? that ‘s ok? Be able to understand each other’s attitude towards life.
For couples or lovers who have been together for a long time, they can also find their lost passion through travel. - Write down each other’s first impression together
Whether you are new to each other or have been together for a long time, couples or lovers should try to have a look. Write down the way the other person looked in your eyes when you first saw each other or when you just fell in love, and then exchange.
This is a very sweet thing. To understand you in the eyes of the other person is not to let you cater to the other person, but to let you know that I still love you no matter what you looked like when I first fell in love. - Try public welfare activities together
You can choose nursing homes, orphanages, rescue stations for stray dogs and cats, tree planting activities, etc
This is a great test of a person’s mentality when facing free activities and people in need
In this process, exercise your mood. Kindness is very important! - Review the past together
Your future has me, your past I also want to try to participate!
When you fell in love, you had already come to each other, and you did not participate in the other’s past. So why not try to take him to your primary school, junior high school, high school and university.
Tell me something interesting about your childhood, so that you can be vivid and three-dimensional in the other person’s image. Walk in the past life, take him to feel your past. - Accompany the other party to do something he likes
For example, you can play games with him. Maybe you won’t, but you can learn from him. Look at his high spirited appearance in the game.
You can also try to play basketball and sports with him to experience the joy of two people sweating.
You can accompany her to go shopping and give her advice. Which one looks good, and which one looks bad, have a happy day and experience her perspective.
You can also try to play with her, discuss the plot, and see handsome men and beautiful women.
This is a small thing, but it can make the other person feel that you love him! Love does not necessarily mean what you say. It is very important to remind the other party of your love by taking actions! - Accompany the other party to do a manual work
Can you stand each other’s “clumsiness”? Can you accept the other party’s “careless”? Can you patiently accompany the other party to finish designing your achievements?
This is something that both of us can enjoy. Boys like to do things and girls like to be creative. So both of them can give consideration to it.
Doing handwork requires patience. During this period, whether the other party’s mood is stable and whether the other party respects your opinion in the process of doing handwork. This is a measure of the person’s performance.
They can also intuitively understand each other’s aesthetics, and it is more convenient to prepare gifts
Qixi is one week away. Do you have any dating plans? If the trip is too short, it will end in a hurry. You can try hand made silver ornaments.
Not only are they designed by two people, but they can also be kept as keepsakes for lovers.