Dating is a sweet and romantic thing, but it would be embarrassing to be silent on the first date, so in order to avoid this situation, we should take the initiative to master the skills of chatting on the first date. Today, the editor brings you tips on how not to be cold in the first date chat, and teaches you to control the rhythm of the date, and you can occupy the heart of the male god in one go!
1. If the attitude seems to be nothing, you can’t care about your eyes!
On the first date, you must grasp the rhythm. The rhythm here is not a simple formula like I said before that you don’t need to reply too fast, and you need to answer the phone in more than 6 seconds.
It’s an interactive airflow with boys. It is an unhurried temptation. Especially in the day when tomorrow is so blatant and the adultery is revealed to the world. Maintaining a certain sense of mystery is a must. Remember we once said: A man is a hunter: as soon as you run, he will catch up by himself
2. Be a quiet and beautiful woman
Many little fairies are very nervous and always not Know what to talk about on a date. I am most afraid of the sudden silence of the air… In fact, we also have a gender advantage when dating.
Girls, just keep a beautiful smile and starry eyes with a little worship. Leave things like hot spots and thinking about topics to him. All you have to do is follow him, go along with him occasionally, without jude, without getting overly excited.
When he is talking, look at him with a smile, pretend to listen carefully, open your eyes from time to time and ask “Really?” ?”
It is said that if you master these three sentences, a straight man can chat with you for a day. Don’t worry, when there is no topic, he will always be more embarrassed than you.
3. Affectionate + soft fingers.
Staring at him with your cheeks on your hands and tilting your head, pretending not to listen to him, when he asks you: What are you looking at?
You squint your eyes and pause twice Seconds, slowly said: No, I just think your fingers are beautiful, so envious~~ (If this is the case, it’s no wonder that boys don’t feel itchy when they hear it.)
You can also listen to him While talking, he fiddled with the spoons, chopsticks, and even a small ball of paper on the table with his fingertips. When playing, you should look at the other person, continue to listen carefully to the other person’s speech, and move gently and slowly, seemingly carelessly.
Or use the same gentle and slow movements to play with the necklace pendant on the chest, spray a little perfume behind the ear, and move the hair from time to time, he will remember your smell every time the hair flutters.
This kind of language and actions that seem to be close and casual are the most capable of touching a man’s heart.
4. The most important thing is to stop dating at the best moment.
MaybeAfter watching the movie and drinking a little wine, your hormone levels soared, and you really wanted to find a place to lay a small bed for friendship. However, at this time, you must call cut in time and go home immediately. Keep the beauty in this moment, don’t let him eat all the candy in one go.
Keep a distance for him to catch up. You must know that waiting is also a time cost. Only by making him invest in you properly can he keep thinking about you.
Temptation is not only the attraction of appearance, but also a kind of psychological pursuit. You enter, I retreat, you retreat, I want to refuse and welcome. Only by controlling the man’s psychology and the rhythm of the relationship between the two can you control a beautiful relationship. Have you learned?