On the first date, everyone goes to the date with both anticipation and fear of being hurt. If your first meeting with him feels good (at least, you feel good.) Then when you go home, you The original nervous mood may still be difficult to calm down, because you will start to worry about screwing up again, and you are afraid that you will never follow up. Then the following small things can help you judge whether the date is going well.
1. Bright look
To be honest, in a state where the two parties are not yet familiar, people Most of them use their appearance to rate a person first. If his eyes are shining when you greet and talk to him (a ray of light is emitted like digging a treasure.), then this means that he is in accordance with his standards. Among them, your appearance makes him feel satisfied and comfortable. If you pass the first level, you will get at least 60
Believe me, if you let him down with your appearance, he will be very friendly, but there is no warmth in his eyes.
2. You can make him laugh
If you are chatting and the other person laughs because of what you say, it is a great sign because you are a humorous person After all, no one wants to go out with someone who is depressed. This also means that he is very happy when getting along with you. On the contrary, if what you say makes him unable to continue or has a bitter face, then next time The chances of making an appointment are greatly reduced.
3. The conversation is easy
The first date, the most fearful thing is to have nothing to say, and some dating partners will make people feel a lot of pressure, so if your conversation There is no silence, and you don’t have to think about topics in your head. Even the questions you ask, he can answer immediately. Everything is so natural, just like Chen Qizhen’s songs are soft and soft, and the feeling of embarrassment all night is gone. No, that’s a good thing.
4. You have a lot in common
If you find that you have a lot in common when you are not familiar with each other, then the excitement probably means that you want to clap the table and applaud. I also feel that there is a real fate in the dark, but if you plan to develop in the direction of lovers, it is great to have something in common, because at least in terms of preferences, there is no need to accommodate and run in.
5. Flirting is very important
When the date comes to the 30th minute, I believe your heart has already I know, if you have any feelings for this person, the other party is of course the same, so when flirting happens, you don’t need to be deliberate, because this is a normal behavior that happens when you have a good impression, like you will pat him on the arm, or When you talk, he will always stare at your lips, and you can’t help but want to have some physical touch.
6. You also talk about serious topics
Although the atmosphere of the conversationIt’s easy, but you can’t just chat: you can talk about everything from politics and social issues to global warming. Understand that the values of the two parties look at things are very different. If he doesn’t like you at all, he won’t seriously spend time discussing serious topics with you, because he just wants to finish the meal quickly and escape.
7. Did he say next time?
When it was time to separate, did he say: next time. Perhaps during the conversation, he had already mentioned along the topic: Let’s go together next time. If he is satisfied with this date, he will definitely reveal the message that he wants to see you again, maybe not personally, maybe by sending a message to express, but it will definitely release the ambiguous atmosphere of wanting to meet again. , which means the date is passed.