The so-called frequency of sexual love refers to the number of times a couple has sexual intercourse within a certain period of time. How many times a week is it right for a couple to have sex? In this regard, the ancients have many discussions. For example, “Yi Xin Fang” summed up many experiences of the ancients and wrote: the 20-year-old voodoo can be used every day, the winner can use it once a day; For those who are ten rich, donate once every three days, for those who are weak, give once every four days; It can be applied once every 30 days, and those who are deficient will not have diarrhea.
The above shows that the frequency of sexual intercourse has a lot to do with age and physique, which cannot be generalized, because due to the differences in physique, quality, age, nature of labor and other factors, coupled with strong or weak sexual desire, each couple The frequency of sexual intercourse between husband and wife is very different; even for the same couple, it is often different due to environmental changes, work busyness, emotional and physical health conditions. Therefore, it is unscientific to mechanically set a standard and think how many times a week sexual intercourse is appropriate.
However, there is no standard for this question. Generally speaking, if the next day after sex, the man or woman feels tired, mentally tired, light-headed, sore waist and legs, poor appetite, and lack of energy at work, this is a signal of frequent sex life, and the frequency of sexual intercourse should be appropriately reduced . If the frequency of sexual intercourse is appropriate, you should not feel tired the next day after sexual intercourse, but on the contrary you should feel happy physically and mentally, and be full of energy for work.
Generally speaking, young people aged 25 to 30 who are newly married can have more frequent sexual intercourse, but not more than four or five times a week; after several months of marriage, it should be gradually reduced to once or twice a week; After the age of 45, it should generally be done once a week. Indulging in sexual desires will hurt the body. There are ancient sayings. Excessive indulgence will not only affect work and study, but also affect physical health. This is because the sexual center (including erection center and ejaculation center) is also related to other organs in the human body. Like the central nervous system, if the excitement is too frequent, over time, exhaustion will occur, such as premature ejaculation, inability to ejaculate and other sexual dysfunction will occur. Some couples have strong sexual desires. If it is difficult to control the number of sexual intercourse, you should shift your attention and spare time to other activities. If there are more ways to exert and consume energy, then the sex life requirements will be weakened.
Generally, couples have sexual intercourse once a night to meet their sexual requirements, but there are also some individuals who have to have two or more sexual intercourses a night to be satisfied; there are also some couples whose ejaculation time is too fast, so that the woman’s sexual desire cannot be satisfied. Repeat sexual intercourse to remedy, because the duration of the second sexual intercourse is often longer. This method is effective, but it cannot be done often. Even if it is done once in a while, it should be based on the principle that neither party feels tired the next day after sex. In fact, it does not necessarily take a long time to achieve the state of sexual satisfaction.
As for where the sexual intercourse is the best and most hygienic, it also varies from person to person. If the man works very hard on this day, and is already very tired physically and mentally, then premature ejaculation will often occur when he has sex before going to bed. In this case, it is more appropriate to sleep first and have sex after waking up. For the elderly, it is more appropriate to have sex in the morning. But generally speaking, it is advisable to have sex before going to bed at night, because there is still a whole night of sleep and rest after sex, so that you can work energetically tomorrow morning.