Recently, I have received a lot of private messages from fans, all of which are complaints about my husband not coming home.
They said that when men first started chasing themselves, they wished they could get bored with them every day, forgetting all about work and entertainment.
But after getting married, the man slowly changed. I go out to socialize every day until the middle of the night before returning home, and correspondingly, I spend less and less time with myself.
They don’t understand why men have changed so much before and after.
In fact, men don’t like to go home. This is not an isolated case, but a common phenomenon. Why do men prefer to stay outside rather than spend more time with themselves?
Kinder women will think that this is because men are really busy. Working from nine to six in the morning, I have a lot of work to deal with, and I have to accompany my boss to accompany my clients after work. I really can’t guarantee that I will go home on time every day.
Sensitive women will feel that this is because men do not love themselves so much. I always bombard him with phone calls, which increases the disgust of the man, so the man is unwilling to go home.
In fact, these are all possible reasons for men not to go home, but they are not the main reasons. So, what is the real psychology of a man not going home? How to make men invest more time in themselves?
Next, I will use Xiaomei’s example to systematically explain to you the real psychology behind men’s reluctance to go home. And teach everyone how to let men invest more time in themselves.
Xiaomei is a full-time mother. Since she gave birth to her baby, she quit her job and devoted herself to taking care of her baby at home.
At the beginning, Xiaomei felt quite relaxed. But after a long time, always being alone at home, it is inevitable that my heart will feel empty. So the happiest thing for her every day is to look forward to her husband returning home on time every day.
At the very beginning, my husband did this. Basically, he got home a little after seven o’clock every day. But this situation lasted for a month, and then Xiaomei found that her husband was becoming less and less punctual.
The time to go home has been postponed from 7:00 at the beginning to 8:00, and then to 9:00, and occasionally I will not go home in the middle of the night.
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