Some people like the familiar bed, food, neighbors, fixed time to be friends and resources *** fixed things. He clings to that sense of being in control and in control.
A parent’s home is a warm haven for some, a sign of security, of feeling in control of yourself. But for some family children, they especially want to get out of the shackles of their parents and go outside to get some fresh air, so they don’t like to go home.
Everyone has different feelings and definitions of security.
But it’s just an emotion.
Emotions are real, but the definitions behind them are outdated and imperfect.
If you tie the sense of security with a fixed concept, you will vaguely know that it will not last long, and you will miss it and fear it. All spiritual practices emphasize: Self-actualization.
I have also repeatedly reminded myself that the purpose of life is to practice, not to pursue external forms.
Everything in any form is fickle.
Fame, health, appearance, environment, praise or derogation, not clinging to the external sense of security, including the concept of security, can truly achieve peace.
Return to the unseen inner home. I remembered what the famous singer Li Na said after she became a monk: I’m going home! The real “big self” is beyond the “small self” in the brain. Bao Youyou’s resource network includes his own insights, emotional thoughts, and stories.
I sit in the vast and far-reaching empty room of life, as in the Tao Te Ching, Tao! eternal.
Because of the concept of home for many years, homesickness rises, which is a normal phenomenon.
Don’t be restrained and oppressed.
Learn to feel the emotion instead of denying it, thinking that homesickness is a bad thing, a feeling out of control, a weird newness that’s just a part of your own brain a habit.
Any habit will help a person to solve some problems, and in some cases, will hinder the solution of some problems, positive and negative will cancel each other out. It doesn’t matter whether it is good or bad.
Just wondering. If you find that this habit has conflicted with your self-growth, you need to rise above this myth and grow taller.
Like an airplane flying through the clouds. Overlooking one’s own mythology is also a beautiful landscape.