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The most spiritual transfer in the world is: doing good deeds!
It is not bad luck that turns, but the path to success that changes mistakes.
One coup, perfect self-personality
We often say that opportunities are for those who are prepared. If the opportunity comes, grab it, it’s called luck. On the contrary, if you miss the opportunity because you enjoy it, you can’t blame luck, let alone God’s neglect. When the opportunity comes, we must discover it in time, make good use of it, and let ourselves live better.
In order to obtain higher quality opportunities, we must work hard to improve our personality. Then someone has to ask, what is the perfection of personality?
It’s actually very simple. It is normal to have three views. See far and wide, and be indifferent to things around you.
To improve your personality, you must first know your goal. A bird must know where its destination is before it can start fly. Under the spur of the goal, strengthen one’s own advantages and improve one’s ability.
To be open-minded, one must treat all people fairly, be tolerant in life, not pursue desires, look down on money and official career, so live easily in this world. Get in touch with new things and people with different paths, make friends, and get out of the world. Only pursue a simple and happy life.
Hold your breath, bend over and look up. Have dignity, don’t be led by the nose by dignity, understand human nature, and don’t be tempted. Learning to mature is the key point of transit! Low-key, as the old saying goes, “one shot to the head”. Not all leaders like expressive employees. The stupid bird should fly first when it lags behind!
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The second trick is to learn to improve yourself.
Why do some people live like an open life overnight, with capital, connections, ability, and rewards? Why do some people work hard for most of their lives, but in the end they still live frugally and spend money? Some blame it all on their own bad luck, complaining that God has not turned to them. themWhat I don’t know is that an excellent person will succeed in the end, the failure is just that they are not good enough!
Decided the way out!
We often see this sentence: the harder you work, the better you are, the better you are, the luckier you are. Then we have to say where this kind of excellence comes from, such as having a good education, having a good family, maybe someone got help from a noble person, and so on. , all of which can help us gain the key to success.
Most people do not have a good family background, and they will not easily get help from noble people. Then we need to improve ourselves and enhance our abilities through learning.
Don’t say to yourself “I can’t”, “I can’t” or “It’s too difficult, I can’t learn”, more Try, don’t let your complaints become a mantra, and over time you will give up trying new things on your own.
Don’t find socializing difficult. A new word “social phobia” appeared on the Internet, which refers to social anxiety, refusal to deal with people, fear of others’ gaze or negative evaluation, fear of making a fool of yourself, nervousness and embarrassment, so try to avoid it. If you want to go it alone, maybe you can be very capable, but the income and work will be limited. When you know a person, you can get to know the other person’s circle, get more resources, and maximize your own interests.
According to the “six degrees of space” theory, we only need to know anyone in the world through six people, and gain more contacts, which will be more helpful to our knowledge and ability. Never give up on your investment, one day you will be rewarded.
The third measure is to live the present self well.
When you can’t move forward because of troubles, don’t rush to complain about your bad luck. Try to let yourself go and go for a walk.
“Regret is common, loneliness is common, life is to taste a little bitterness, life is to see the impermanence of the world.”
The most beautiful scenery is not on the mountainside, but At the top of the mountain, but don’t forget to stop when we are on the mountainside. Sometimes the scenery on the mountainside will be very unique, and it will make you forget the bitterness of climbing the mountain. At this time, go to the top and enjoy the same scenery.
The beauty of life comes from the satisfaction of life, recalling the past, maybe not satisfied, but will it be more regrettable, Then I thought that I must have complained crazily at that time.
Reflect on your own problems, don’t rush for success, and don’t complain. The revelation you get from yourself is always greater than the opinions of others. Forget your troubles, cherish the present, and live well, only then can you meet good luck unexpectedly.
A living friend and an excellent resource *** to say goodbyeFear at this moment, live well, live confidently, and be lucky. When we are troubled by life, we must work hard to change our emotions and stimulate our potential. Don’t give up trying when one of us gets discouraged for a while. We should believe in ourselves more. Be yourself, live in the moment, and be your own protagonist in our lives.
A person’s wisdom comes from the realm of harmony between man and nature. He tempers his thoughts with reality. Only by perfecting one’s personality, learning to improve oneself, and living well in the present, can one release one’s self-ability and realize real transfer.