Love someone (the person who really loves you will have these three manifestations)
The human heart is the most elusive and mysterious existence in the world. Everyone is imagining what those around them are thinking all the time. They long to know what they really mean.
Of course, in terms of emotions, after you get a general understanding of a person through many behaviors, your feelings will lead you to two conclusions: whether he loves you or not.
Feeling is not a science, but there are bound to be deviations, sometimes slight and sometimes very different.
A slight deviation is fine. It can only be said that what others want you to feel is not so successful. This is his failure. If it strays too far, it affects you. You may miss a person who loves you, or you may be entangled with a person who does not love you for a lifetime.
These two unpleasant outcomes are naturally painful, so we must find ways to avoid them.
People who really love you will have these three manifestations. Don’t ignore them:
1. Understand your decision
Everyone’s ideas should exist, and everyone’s decisions should be respected and should not be opposed or denied. This is an awareness that everyone should have.
However, in this world, it is difficult to have such understanding people. The only people who can often do this now are those who love you.
Of course, your decision may be right or wrong, but you can’t deny that it’s all your decision, and you’ve worked hard towards what you want to achieve.
The one you love just wants you to be well. He knows that you can accept any outcome, and he is willing to accompany you to accept any outcome.
Understanding sometimes makes you feel independent and free; understanding sometimes makes you feel respected; understanding makes you feel that someone in this world understands you, so that you are no longer alone.
So, if a person can give up his position and understand your decision from his own perspective, then this person really loves you.
2. Stop impulsive
Although men are rational and women are emotional, everyone will be impulsive Sometimes, it’s just that women are more impulsive than men.
Impulse is the devil, not only because impulse can produce irreparable bad results, but also because it is difficult for people to control themselves. At this time, someone needs to stop it.
Impulse has a great influence on people. Even if the result of an impulse is only a loss of tens of dollars, once the impulse becomes a habit, more things will be lost. It is not necessarily as simple as money, it may even change a person’s destiny.
The person who can stop your impulsiveness in time must be the person who hopes that you will not regret it, will not suffer from your impulsiveness, and hope that you will have a better life in the future.
You have to believe that in this world, apart from yourself, only those who love you will wish you a good life.
At the same time, many times because of the indulgence of true love, people’s behavior is not well controlled, which leads to some bad results. At this time, people will question whether this person really loves him, and vent some emotions on him.
It is right to question, there is nothing wrong with it, and there is nothing wrong with venting emotions. During this time period, you can know more about whether he really loves you. People who love you will not turn away when you have a problem, but will face it with you.
3. People who care about your future
The future is very close to people, but also far away from them. When you feel it is close at hand, you stretch out your hand, wanting to grab it, but you always hold a void, you can’t touch it, you can’t grasp it.
In the future, we don’t know what it will be like, but some behaviors now will affect the future.
So, there will always be some people around you who will tell you what to do now, what is wrong and what is right.
They remind you all the time, but that is just a reminder, not an intervention, because it is love to remind you not to give up lightly, and too much intervention is Possessive and selfish, only you are responsible for human life.
At the same time, people who love you will not always care about your past, who you were in the past, and what you did in the past. The past is gone and the future can be created. Those who love you want you to be well and look forward instead of dwelling on past emotions.
Love is very close to people, it is around people, but love is far away from people. If you don’t stop and observe the feeling with your mind, it’s hard to detect its existence.
Maybe, in this world, there are many people who say they love you and do a lot for you to prove that they are right, but they don’t I must really love you.
People who really love you will understand your decision, stop your impulse, and care about your future. He values you as a whole, not a perfect machine.