One, the summer is cloudy and rainy.
The sultry and rainy days in summer make people sweat more easily. If your sexual desire is high and you are over-excited, you may be sweating profusely before sex begins. Chinese medicine believes that “Qi is released with sweat”, and excessive sweating will also damage the kidney qi. Having sex at this time is not good for the health of both parties. Some couples will turn down the air conditioner in order to cool down, but they don’t know that the pores on the skin surface will open during sex, and the cold air will invade and hurt the body. Especially when the waist and abdomen are exposed, the cool air will invade the kidneys and damage the kidney qi. It can also lead to problems like colds and muscle aches.
Second, menstrual period.
At this time, the cervix is open, and it is very easy to be infected during sexual intercourse, leading to inflammation of the uterus or appendages. Studies have also found that during menstrual intercourse, women’s menstrual secretions enter the male urethra, which can cause urethral irritation in men. Therefore, avoiding sexual life during menstruation can effectively reduce the chance of genital infection.
Third, after drinking.
If you drink a lot of alcohol during meals, most women and some men will experience a decrease in libido. Moreover, after drinking, people are in a short-term excited state, and they are prone to over-excited or rough and reckless behaviors during sexual life. Accelerated rhythm and excessive concentration can easily lead to premature ejaculation for the man and hinder the harmony of sexual life. Alcohol damages multiple organs such as the heart, liver, and nerves. In addition, the nervous system is highly excited during sexual life, and the sexual organs are extensively congested, which will aggravate organ damage. Conceiving after drinking can endanger the fetus. A survey found that sex life after drinking is also one of the important reasons for sudden death.
Fourth, when you are too full or hungry.
Because a full meal makes the gastrointestinal tract full and congested, and the blood supply to the brain and other organs of the body is relatively insufficient, so it is not advisable to have sex just after eating; Having sex at this time is often not easy to achieve satisfactory results.
Experts suggest that Chinese people can choose shrimp, sea cucumber and other foods that can help increase sexual desire before sex. Foods that invigorate the spleen and kidney such as black fungus and yam are also good choices. After eating, the body will be a little tired, which may affect the quality of sex at this time. Therefore, it is recommended to enjoy the pleasure of fish and water with your partner about one and a half hours after the meal.
5. When there is great sorrow and great joy.
It is very necessary to maintain a harmonious and happy sex life, but it is more important to have a safe and good sex life. After the human body is sufficiently stimulated, there will often be rapid release of nerve impulses, muscle contraction and increased glandular secretion, etc., which are specifically manifested as rapid heartbeat, elevated blood pressure, and headache.
Sex life itself is a process of nervous excitement. If you enjoy sex when you are already very excited, especially for middle-aged and elderly peopleFor men, I am afraid that they will further speed up and increase their heartbeat and blood pressure, which may even exceed their body’s tolerance limit. Mild cases may cause palpitation, dizziness and other discomforts, and severe cases may cause cardiovascular and cerebrovascular accidents, and even endanger life safety. Therefore, no matter what your usual physical condition is, for the sake of safety, when middle-aged and elderly men are too excited, it is best to avoid sex.
6. When you have just finished taking a hot bath.
The human body is an extremely sensitive physiological system, which responds very sensitively to temperature. Even a subtle change of 0.1°C can cause multiple changes in various hormones in the body, and can even promote the electrical frequency signals emitted by neuron cells. Sometimes strong and sometimes weak. Generally, when the temperature exceeds 33°C, the sensitivity of the skin begins to decline. Many people experience skin flushing and a slight numbness. The hot bath we often talk about mostly means that the water temperature is between 38°C and 40°C. Try it with your hands and it will be a little hot, which will of course reduce the sense of touch.
Experts suggest that you should try to avoid taking a hot bath before sex, just take a cold shower, and the water temperature should be around 35°C. Warm water bath can calm the nerves and reduce the burden on the cardiovascular system, and has a good effect on high blood pressure, neurasthenia, insomnia, and itchy skin. If you really want to take a hot bath, it is recommended to have sex half an hour later, so that the skin temperature can basically return to normal, the skin is no longer so moist, and there will be no negative impact on libido.
When you are sick, the body’s resistance is low, and the sexual sensitivity is reduced, which affects the quality of sexual life. Especially when you are suffering from infectious diseases, you should not have sex, otherwise you will not only suffer yourself, but also pass it on to your lover.
8. When you are tired.
Sex life consumes a certain amount of physical strength and energy. When you are mentally or physically exhausted, you often cannot achieve orgasm when you have sex, and you cannot receive satisfactory results for both parties. Especially if you have sex immediately after fatigue, it will damage your health.
If you have sex too early after delivery, it is easy to cause poor uterine involution and uterine bleeding. According to a survey, nearly 40% of women have sex too hastily for the first time after giving birth, which casts a shadow over their future sex life. Generally speaking, sexual life can only be resumed gradually after 6-8 weeks postpartum.
Ten, before dawn.
If both parties do not get enough rest, the balance of the body will be out of balance and the resistance will be reduced; both parties will also affect work and study efficiency due to excessive fatigue.