The feeling of loving someone (really falling in love with someone, there are usually these four feelings)
There is a saying that goes like this: “Love is a medicine that can heal all your pains ;It will also make you very poisonous.”
Love can attract people from two different worlds, and it can also turn people from the same world into enemies. Love can also affect the development of your life. “Winning or losing does not matter”.
Love is mysterious, many things can only be understood and cannot be explained in words.
Among the opposite sex, those who really fall in love with someone usually have these four feelings.
01
An arrow shot through the heart.
When you meet someone you like, but you don’t know how to express it, and you can’t guarantee it. After expressing yourself, the other party will accept it, and your mood will be very complicated. When you think about him, your heart is full of joy, but when you see the truth, your mood drops to a low point.
If you take the initiative to confess, but he refuses, you will feel very uncomfortable, but you will still be “not reconciled”. You can’t figure out why the confession lines that you worked so hard to design become “nonsense” in his eyes after the affectionate words are finished.
A reader told me such a thing: He fell in love with his senior sister who was three years older than him, but he never confessed. Years later, both were married.
At an alumni gathering, the two met again. At that moment, he couldn’t help telling her what he was suppressing. After listening to it, she said: “Actually, at first, I thought you would tell me.”
From then on, this reader, when alone, burst into tears. The missed love has become his eternal pain.
We always think that we can get rid of the past love by starting a new relationship, but we are actually “deceiving ourselves”. This trick doesn’t work for everyone.
If you really fall in love with someone, but the two of you don’t hold hands, or don’t have a chance to hold hands, your heart will be very painful. When I think of him, I feel like an arrow pierces my heart, like countless ants crawling in my heart, I don’t know how to stop.
It is said that Cupid, the god of love, has two kinds of arrows: one kind of arrow will bring noble love; the other kind of arrow will bring strong desire.
If you give your heart to the other party, then your heart will swing back and forth between love and desire, expecting the other party’s love, and fearing all the unknowns.
02
I miss you so much
Have you ever felt sad because you missed someone too much Picking up the phone and thinking about it, dialed the other party’s phone number, or sent a WeChat message to the other party? When the other person asks “what’s the matter”, don’t say “I miss you”, but say “it’s nothing, I just asked where you are”.
Pretending to be indifferent, but the thoughts deep in my heart are really elusive.
If two people have become husband and wife, or becomeLovers, then in the days of separation, missing becomes a “natural” thing.
When you miss him very much, send him a WeChat message and say “I miss you”. Whether he responds positively or not, you will speak your mind without any shame.
Missing is an inexplicable feeling that always pops up involuntarily. When you miss someone desperately, the other person will feel it inexplicably.
For example, when you miss someone, you suddenly receive his ***. You send him a WeChat message, and he replies almost every second.
Because we care about each other, we have more moments of empathy.
Writer Wang Xiaobo said: “I tell you, when I think of you, my ugly face smiles. When I am quiet, you emerge from my heart, just like Aphrodite emerges from the waves The same.”
Missing someone is to show the other person’s appearance over and over again, and my heart is rippling, and I can’t stop.
03
A dilemma.
In the early days of a relationship, you may have such difficulties: When you encounter difficulties, should you go to him; do you want to tell him when you are resting?
You are not sure, the other party will agree to his request, or you are afraid of disturbing him, so you are embarrassed.
Even couples have dilemmas. After all, everyone has privacy, and even his lover can’t tell him.
For example, if you want to have dinner with a classmate of the opposite sex, you’d better not tell your lover about this kind of thing, so as not to make him jealous. But if you don’t tell him, you will feel like you are lying. It’s really hard.
It’s even harder to meet someone you can’t love. It is a further mistake, a mistake of not wanting to take a step back. If you insist on being with him, you will ruin your family, and you will be laughed at and reviled.
Some people say: “If you fall in love with someone, you will stay with him without hesitation.”
It is true, but it is really difficult to do. Love is not a decision of one person, but consensual. Your thoughts and actions are always controlled by the other party. The deeper the love, the less self-compassion.
04
Unlimited expectations.
No one knows what will happen in the future. But two people who love each other want to know whether they will always be together, whether they will always be happy.
When you are single, you expect to meet someone who likes you, and this person happens to like you.
When in love, you look forward to working together and starting a family. Both parents are supportive of you being with him.
When you get married, you expect love to last forever, not just for a day or two.
After I get married, I look forward to having my own children and having a lot of money so that my family can live a good life.
When people get old, they expect to live longer, be healthier, and spend more time with each other.
The day of separation,Looking forward to reunion; days together, looking forward to romance; in the evening, I look forward to getting home from get off work as soon as possible and having dinner with my lover; on weekends, I look forward to going for a walk with two people. …
People seem to be looking forward to it all their lives. However, all expectations are related to him.
There are many people in the world, there are many good people, but you think he is a better person, no one is.
True love is often a feeling, an inexplicable feeling.
I can’t tell why, but my brows are furrowed, but my heart is still there.
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