The topic of cheating will never dissipate for us, but for most men, it is a thing that they know they are wrong or choose to do. So what is the psychology of men after cheating? Follow the editor to see “the real psychology of husband after cheating”.
First of all, we need to know under what circumstances will a man choose to cheat?
The weary period of marriage. For example, I have been with my wife for seven or eight years, and my married life has entered a period of fatigue, which happens to be a period of high incidence of extramarital affairs;
Can also communicate, which belongs to the nature of work and can communicate frequently.
The time to communicate is much more than that of women in marriage. At this time, it will appear that people outside of marriage understand themselves better and are better able to communicate, while communication in marriage will naturally decrease. Marriage becomes more tedious; this is the second stage.
After going through the second stage, the man meets such a woman, who is very topical, and feels that someone can finally understand him. At this time, the man will enter the third stage, the sweet time of love. It’s like falling in love again, there are very sweet times, I want to be with her, be together all the time, as long as I have free time, I want to be with her.
When their relationship gradually heats up and the man finds that he can control the woman, then the man will enter the fourth stage! The stage of psychological struggle.
Generally, after the sweet period, if his own moral sense is still there, he will feel that this kind of behavior is sorry for his family. He will bear a lot of psychological pressure, and he will keep telling himself that he should come back, he should come back, and he shouldn’t fall deeper, because he never said that he wanted to choose his marriage again, nor did he say that he had to leave the current married life. Naturally, it will be tangled and uncomfortable;
Of course, the struggle and discomfort may only be short-lived. After all, the woman who had an extramarital affair gave him mental and physical stimulation, which made him reluctant to return to the marriage and family he thought had long since died. At that time, we have entered our fifth stage. We were discovered by our wife and forced to return to the family.
At this stage, it depends on how determined the man is. If he thinks that he is a woman who loves extramarital affairs, his own sense of morality, and his sense of responsibility to the family are all important, then I will go back to build trust in the family, and of course I feel that I can’t continue to delay others for women outside of marriage.
Summary: In the editor’s opinion, no matter what your husband’s cheating psychology is, cheating itself is wrong! If you encounter cheating, you must not soften your heart, and don’t Forgive him because the heart is soft, after all, there is an old saying that is good! “There are only 0 times and thousands of times of derailment”, so I can avoid being hurt again.Injuries, we must treat this issue seriously.