A person with a noble heart (noble heart (good writing))
Your heart is noble, and so is your life.
Noble at heart.
There are many details in life, you may be inadvertent, but these inconspicuous details can reflect your character, affect your popularity, determine your soul and future life.
Once I went to a friend’s house as a guest.
Her family hired a nanny, who is a bit old and has trouble moving.
I was sitting in the living room drinking tea, she was busy with a smile, her dignified and beautiful figure shuttled between the kitchen and the living room.
This was the first time I went to her house and the first time I saw her outside of a social setting.
When she was chatting with me, she kept ordering the old nanny to do this and that, and the old nanny was also very busy, with a flattering and scared expression.
As I was leaving, the war suddenly broke out, and I saw another scene, another cacophony.
I saw a friend sitting at the dining table scolding the old nanny, but the reason was that the table of her glass dining table was wet with fruit, and the old nanny didn’t scrub it with toothpaste as she said.
I finally saw another expression on her face, which was so strange and terrifying.
She didn’t even look at the nanny, she just looked straight at the timid person in front of her.
She squeezed out a few words word by word: “Do you want me to tell you again? If the table is not wiped clean, wipe it three times with toothpaste! Wipe it until you can reflect shadow!”
The old nanny carefully took out a tube of toothpaste from the bathroom, but accidentally blew the basin down. So the water flooded the ground and the old nurse slipped and fell. She didn’t get up for a long time.
She didn’t even move her eyelids.
Turning his face away, he immediately smiled at me.
In an instant, my heart was extremely cold-oh my god, she changed her face!
Since then, I have never seen her again, and never picked up her *** again.
In my heart, I no longer regard her as a friend. Maybe she still doesn’t know why I suddenly alienated her.
I don’t mean to belittle other people’s characters and ways of doing things, but I know that the inferiority and nobility of human nature can be seen in such details.
I don’t like people who change their faces, just like I don’t like people who are used to lying. I can’t stand this quality of life blemish.
The same thing, you can see the texture of a person.
I passed by Guomao that day, which is the busiest section of Chongqing Road.
A beggar is begging on his knees, and an old man without lower limbs is crawling inch by inch.
Passers-by looked sideways, expressionless.
Begging for help, I took out a dollar and threw it at the beggar. I am skilled.
After walking a few steps, I saw a woman crossing the street.
A woman with luxurious clothes and exquisite makeup has just come out of the International Trade Center with a large bag in her hand. When she came to the beggar, she stopped and tried to pay her money, but she couldn’t get it out.
The beggar on the ground, “a good friend and an acquaintance with Excellent Resource Network”, waved his hand, motioning for the woman to leave.
But the woman suddenly squatted down. I thought she wanted to reprimand the beggar at close range, but I saw her use her hands and eyes to signal the beggar to take out her pocket.
The beggar’s hands were so dirty that they couldn’t be more dirty, as black as just picking up cinders… But the woman just squatted in front of the beggar like this, letting the dirty hand dig out her close-fitting pocket!
The beggar took out a 10 yuan bill, and the woman stood up and left in a hurry.
At that time, the action of throwing money no longer made me feel noble, and the sight in front of me surprised me.
It’s not a matter of paying more or less. That’s where I see a certain arrogance, a certain prejudice, a certain beggar’s humility in my soul.
I consider my graceful throw to be my charity, my gift and my pity for the weak. In fact, my shallowness and narrowness are so fragile.
Women squat down, squatting out of their own accomplishments, squatting out of the nobility in their bones. Such a woman is not only lovely, but also respectable.
Noble is to treat people with equality, whether they are high-ranking officials or nobles or poor beggars.
There is one more thing I can’t let go of.
After the little nanny left my house because of marriage, I hired an hourly worker to clean the room every week.
The market rate is 7 yuan per hour, but I always give 10 yuan. If I clean the glass or do some heavy work, I pay more.
I often give them some old clothes, shoes, hats and scarves, tie them into a big bag, and give them away without looking carefully.
In order not to hurt other people’s dignity and face, I always send them carefully for fear of misunderstanding.
Once, on a snowy day, there was a knock on the door of my house, and my hourly worker stood outside the door.
Her face was flushed by the wind, and she was shivering from the cold, but she still handed me some money in her hand.
It turned out that when she came home, she found some small change in my old clothes. She was afraid of being misunderstood, so she rode a bicycle for three hours, and hurriedly sent the money back.
I pulled her into the house to keep warm, but she didn’t want to. She also said, “Don’t miss out.”
Oh my gosh, I’m going to order something! I don’t remember the money at all.
Then she turned around and left, and had to walk back for three hours against the wind and snow.
Actually, she can lend me this money next time she comes to my house, just because she is afraid of misunderstanding. She was eager to come here just to prove herself.
A little money, but let me see the quality of her life, the nobility of her soul!
What is noble in the bones? highIt is still a cultivation rooted in the heart.
The so-called nobility means that you have the same heart and smile for dignitaries and beggars.
“Don’t be happy with things, don’t be sad with yourself.”
You have a feeling of compassion for everything, you maintain a noble character, but the noble place is like you The soil beneath his feet was just as ordinary.
So far I remember Oscar Wilde said, “There are many people with good moral character, such as fishermen, shepherds, farmers, laborers. Although they know nothing about art, they are the land of the earth. The essence.”
In my opinion, a tree has the dignity of a tree, the character of a human, and the logic of a fish. Everything in the world has its own rules and standards of behavior.
However, the nobility of a person does not lie in the so-called culture and education he comes into contact with.
No matter what industry you are in or what class you are in, you can discern the basic texture of a person from the details.
Details can always reflect the glory or darkness of human nature. Nobility is always a higher cultivation of a person!