It is not difficult to find that many people now live a “fast food life”,
The so-called fast-food lifestyle means that it is as fast as fast food, does not seek form, and treats everything or people in life in a simple manner. For example, “flash marriage!” is the most vivid, so let’s first give you a popular science about what it means to get married! Let’s take a look!
What does “flash marriage” mean?
“flash marriage” is a general term for the so-called lightning marriage. It is that the two parties got married shortly after they met, and some even fell in love at first sight as soon as they met, and then began to prepare for the wedding.
Obviously, even a fast-food relationship will have problems, and flash marriages will obviously have a series of problems. This is also the case of flashing away, and this proportion is not low.
So in order to prevent the sisters from going through the process of flash marriage and divorce, here are some suggestions from the editor, please read carefully?
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Be sure to understand whether the three views are consistent! It is not required to be completely consistent, but they should not be too far apart! Because the three views will determine how far your marriage can go. The three views include values, outlook on life, and world outlook. In fact, I think there are still very important It’s consumption!
Whether traveling together or living together, you must understand clearly, Jimei! Otherwise, the running-in period will be very long, and the marriage will be very painful.
2. 15 questions before marriage, Baidu has questions, it is recommended that before marriage, you can calm down and do each other and exchange answers. And can treat these fifteen questions carefully! Believe me is very important!
Don’t be stingy with an hour or an afternoon tea time! What you are facing is a lifetime!
3. Before marriage, there must be ten thousand One must leave him and need the confidence: that is money! Don’t let yourself be passive, don’t let yourself have no way out, don’t let yourself get hurt and don’t have the funds and courage to leave!
This money is very important! In case the end is over, you can buy an air ticket at any time and have the courage to leave.
4. After marriage, you have your own house, whether you buy it or rent it, get to know each other’s parents, go to each other’s house, and avoid living with either parent! You can avoid Drop 80% of daily tedious problems.
5. Don’t marry with a child! Don’t get pregnant before marriage! There are too many marriages with a child, and the woman is too disadvantaged and passive. Most people who marry with children will regret it.
6. Don’t trust the chicken soup and advice given to you by couples who just got married. Don’t look at the loving couples who are just getting married. Look at the happy couples who still have children a year or two after the marriage , which is more informative.
7. It is recommended that girls who are planning to get married give more time to learn more. If he is right, he is not afraid of another half a year, preferably a yearRight?