Have you ever noticed this phenomenon? When your husband met him, he was obviously not like this. After getting married, you found a different man? In summary, he is much more sloppy than before marriage. Why? Next The editor will share my opinion on the question of “Why do married men become more and more sloppy”, let’s take a look.
In fact, in my opinion, there are three reasons why married men become more and more sloppy:
1. Because a man thinks that he is married and already has a woman, so he doesn’t care.
Before getting married, many men are more concerned about the eyes of others. They always want to dress up handsomely, thinking that one day a girl will fall in love with him. Men dress up with this mentality, and some men, because other men around them pay more attention to appearance, so they themselves start to pay attention to appearance.
But after getting married, not only does a man lose his previous thoughts, but he also loses those men who can influence him. After all, he lives with his wife after marriage, so men start to be untidy , thinking about dressing up and no one is watching, what am I doing so hard?
2. A man can’t do without the woman behind him
In addition to the situation mentioned above, there are also The sloppyness of some men actually has a lot to do with their wives. If the wife is a clean and tidy person and has high requirements for men’s grooming, then she will definitely make the man look very handsome and clean, and will never allow the man to go out in a sloppy manner.
But if your wife is very casual about dressing up, then it is conceivable that a man will be affected to a certain extent after getting along with her for a long time, so he will become sloppy.
3. Men are sloppy and their wives intervene and men are unwilling to cooperate
Of course, some men are born sloppy, even if The wife wants to make him change and dress himself a little tidier, but men don’t pay the bill. It’s not wrong to think that you are like this, men should be like this, why do you clean up so well all day long. Also, men basically have lazy genes, no matter how good a man is. So just figured it would be fine.