I received a private message from a fan yesterday, she said this:
Teacher, the one in my family really broke my heart.
I was kind to him with all my heart and soul, and gave him everything I had, but he cared less and less about me.
Take a small example.
Last Monday I bought him a black shirt that I had spent a week preparing for him.
But after receiving the gift, he just took a look at it, and then said that the clothes were ugly and asked me to return them.
He even accused me of being careless, saying when he wore black clothes and so on.
I feel wronged, why can’t I wear black?
Even if he doesn’t like it, he should see my intentions.
But why can’t he see my goodness?
After reading this fan’s message, I believe we will all be very touched.
Why did I pay so much, but the man still couldn’t perceive it? Even the more you pay, the more inconsiderate the man is?
When we encounter this kind of situation, our first reaction must be that this is because the man is ruthless and ungrateful, and his efforts for many years have been fed to the dogs.
But is this really the case?
I remembered the example of student Minmin.
Minmin and her husband have been married for three years. During these three years, Minmin was busy with washing and cooking every day. She took good care of the family, and she was especially considerate of the man.
At the very beginning, my husband was really touched and felt that Minmin had worked too hard.
So every time he came back from get off work, he would buy some of Minmin’s favorite food to reward her.
But slowly my husband discovered that although Minmin has paid a lot for herself, she always likes to talk about these things.
Sometimes the two of them have a little awkward fight, and before the husband has said anything, Minmin just opens his mouth to say how I feel about this family.
This made my husband very angry.
In addition, the man later discovered that Minmin always likes to make up his own faults in front of outsiders, saying that she treats him and the family so well, but her husband has no conscience, and being a woman is too hard.
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