Young love (Is young love really love?)
People who enter youth often face an eternal problem, that is love. Before you know it, it creeps inside and hits your heart. But love, it may make you extremely happy, or it may make you fall into the abyss of misfortune. It may give you a starting point for taking off, or it may give you a trail leading to the bottom of the valley.
At the age of 18, Shakespeare married Ann Harvey, but according to church records, he had been married to a A girl named Ann Whateley married. The reasons are complex. Ann Hathaway, the daughter of a wealthy farmer, was eight years older than Shakespeare. When she got along with Shakespeare, her father had died. She lives with her stepmother and half brother on the farm left by her father. Her life is not satisfactory, and she is getting older, so she has been planning to find her husband’s family and leave this roof. So at this time, Shakespeare’s appearance was like a bright light in the night, and she was ecstatic. Soon, Ann Hathaway became pregnant. So Shakespeare married her, renouncing the original engagement. After marriage, Shakespeare gave birth to three children one after another, but life was not satisfactory. At that time, he was only 21 years old, and the burden of life was on his shoulders early on, and he could not see the future.
In life, there are always things to give up and things to get. In search of a bright future, when his three children were a little older, he left his hometown and embarked on a journey to London alone. After more than 20 years, he returned to his hometown to settle down. As a dramatist, Shakespeare is successful, but his blind choice of love leads to unsatisfactory married life.
A famous writer once said: When you are young, you don’t necessarily know what you want and what you are pursuing. Even the heckling of others can lead to marriage. When you grow up and mature, you will know what you really need. But by then you’ve done a lot of stupid things that you regret.
Too much immature love breeds around us, about ourselves or friends. This kind of love often blinds our eyes, thinking that as long as there is love, we can ignore everything, so that we can marry blindly and have children blindly.
We can pursue love bravely, but we can’t talk about love blindly, because love is not just a pledge of eternal love, but also a responsibility to each other. Mature love is not just your love and my wish, it is the integration of deeper thoughts and souls, and it is a ray of gorgeous light felt in the vast sea of people. It will not disappear with the passage of time, it will not be forgotten with the change of the environment, and it will not change with the change of the world. So it gets deeper. Every disaster and reunion is a new baptism, which will make each other closer and cherish Youyou Resource Network even more.
So, in life, be cautious about love. youthful feelingLove is not what we call love. Maybe it’s just our longing and curiosity about love in the rainy season. Don’t think that when you meet someone, you feel that the whole world belongs to him. If you have, then I can tell you responsibly that you are wrong.
There are more than 7 billion people in the world, and the only chance you can meet in this life is about 1 in 7 billion, hundreds of millions of times less than your chance of winning the lottery jackpot. In other words, it’s impossible, so the only person you meet who feels indispensable to your life is really just the one who’s in your circle of life so frequently that you’re close to your mate selection criteria.